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Tithing With Your Talents

The holidays hold a special place in my heart, overflowing with high spirits and anticipation that dates back to my childhood. The air is charged with a unique energy, being packed with the magic that accompanies this time of year. It is a season steeped in tradition, where rituals and customs intertwine with heartwarming memories. But perhaps the most overpowering aspect of the holidays is the spirit of giving that spreads through every corner. As a child, I eagerly awaited the arrival of Santa Claus, his jolly presence bringing forth a magical exchange of gifts. However, as the years passed and I transitioned into adulthood, my perspective shifted. Now, as a parent myself, witnessing the twinkling delight in my children's eyes has become my ultimate joy. The baton of excitement has been passed, and I find immense happiness in kindling that same flicker of anticipation in others.

As someone who cherishes the holiday season and my ever evolving relationship with my maker, I must confess that tithing has been a journey of growth for me. Like many of us who grew up in the church, I have encountered sermons here and there, shedding light on this act of giving. When I was a child, I'll admit that I didn't fully grasp the messages that the preacher shared during those Sunday sermons. To be honest, I think I spent most of my time coloring on the pamphlet that the greeters handed out when we walked in. But as I grew older and became more aware of the world around me, those sermons started a range of emotions within me. However, one concept that left me feeling uneasy was the idea that God would only bless me if I gave 10 percent of my earnings to the church. As a child, my parents were doing everything they could to ensure our financial stability, and it was clear that they were facing their own struggles. It was difficult for me to comprehend why God's blessings would be tied to monetary contributions, especially considering our circumstances.

When my love for my maker began to truly flourish, I found myself engaging in challenging conversations with him about various aspects of our relationship. One particular issue that caused me to hesitate and fluctuate in my commitment was the concept of tithing. I couldn't quite grasp the idea of giving ten percent when I believed that the ultimate goal of the teachings centered around bringing people closer to God. It struck me as contradictory, especially considering that most individuals walking into a church for the first time are often burdened financially, spiritually, and emotionally. I believe that, initially, what these wounded hearts truly need to hear is something more comforting and supportive, rather than a directive to give a specific percentage of their income.

Before I finish, I just wanted to share God does answer are struggling questions with life and with him if we ask. Believe it or not, I have personally experienced God speaking and answering my prayers when I took the time to pause, be still, and listen. And let me tell you, it has made all the difference in the world. During one of my long walks, where God addressed my concerns and completely transformed my perspective on tithing. His message was clear: while tithing is indeed crucial for receiving blessings, it wasn't exactly what the world had always preached. He revealed to me that each and every one of us possesses unique strengths and talents that others may not have. We were intentionally designed this way for a greater purpose - to give back to others and to honor Him. How incredible is that? It's truly remarkable how much good we can do for others when we possess unique skills and compassionate hearts. Just imagine, if you're a hairdresser, you have the power to make someone's day by giving them a haircut they desperately need, free of charge. Similarly, a skilled carpenter can build something meaningful for those who are in need. And why stop there? If you own a lawn maintenance company, you can offer a helping hand by mowing the yard of someone who might be feeling down or grieving. But it doesn't end with these noble acts of service. Our struggles, the trials we've endured in life, can serve a greater purpose too. Sharing our own experiences of overcoming difficulties can offer comfort and hope to those who find themselves trapped in the same dark tunnel, reminding them that there is light at the other end.

I'm hoping that maybe we can change the narrative of tithing, particularly for those who are encountering God's love for the first time. It's truly a beautiful thing to contribute financially and keep the church going, but I strongly believe that we need to emphasize the concept that each one of us is wealthy in various aspects, enabling us to give. I hope that during this significant period of regular reminders about giving, it serves as a gentle nudge, reminding us that every individual possesses something valuable to contribute. Whether it's our time, talents, or resources, we all have the ability to make a difference and impact the lives of others. Let's spread the message that giving is about the abundance we already possess, and it's a joyful act of sharing our blessings with others. So, let us embrace our abilities, reach out to those in need, and spread kindness and support in whatever way we can. After all, even the smallest gestures can make a tremendous impact on someone's life.

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