We're All Influencers

In this fast evolving digital age, who would have ever thought that there would be a new career option in our lifetime? Social media has given rise to an extraordinary opportunity, allowing individuals to utilize its power and become successful brand marketers, all from the comfort of their own homes.

Influencers hold a significant power over our consumer choices. With the ability to showcase their favorite clothes, make-up looks, books, recipes, and more, they have mastered the art of convincing us that we need everything they are endorsing.

One of the great things about being on the other side of the social media fun is that we have the power to choose who we want to be influenced by. It allows us to follow a diverse range of ideas and discover new tools and products that we may need or want to buy. Whether it's following tech gurus who introduce us to innovative gadgets, fashion influencers who inspire our wardrobe choices, or entrepreneurs who share valuable insights and business solutions, social media provides us with a wealth of inspiration.

During one of my mindless scrolls the other afternoon, in the world of social media, I stumbled upon Paige Desorbo sharing another adorable outfit she had put together. Little did I know, my daughter Ava had been observing me from the corner of the room, with curiosity in her eyes. She asked me what I was looking at, her voice filled with wonder. I couldn't help but show her Paige's profile, explaining that I liked to follow her because of her style in clothes. Ava looked up at me with approving eyes, and smiled. "Oh yea," she exclaimed, "I really like how she dresses!" Yet, in that very moment, Ava's words took an unexpected turn. With a sincere tone, she continued, "But mama, I also like how you dress too."

In that moment, I had a realization that we hold the power of influence, regardless of whether we possess a flashy social media profile or not. Every single day, without even realizing it, we become unintentional influencers. Our children, from a distance, gaze upon us with admiration, drawing inspiration from our actions within the confines of our cozy homes. At work, the people we interact with on a regular basis observe us closely, silently absorbing the lessons we teach through our words and deeds. Even within the sphere of our conversations with friends and strangers, we leave an unexpected impact—an imprint on their thoughts and perspectives. We hold the capacity to inspire them, even without the knowledge that we do. It is a humbling realization, reminding us that ordinary lives have extraordinary consequences.

In a world driven by likes, followers, and virtual validation, it becomes crucial for us to pause and reflect on the true essence of our individuality. We often overlook how truly special we are, even without the tangible proof of popularity. Our worth is not measured by the number of followers we accumulate on social media, but rather by the impact we make on the lives of others. Every day, through our simple acts of kindness, genuine connections, and heartfelt words, we add immeasurable value to the world we inhabit. It is in those small moments, those silent gestures, that we leave a lasting impression on others, shaping their lives in ways we may never fully comprehend.